Attitude is everything.Our thought and action make it.Our thought stem from the way we think or what we belive in and how we feel. A positive attitude lead to happiness and success and can change a persons whole life for the better.
adhit
Saturday, May 28, 2011
We can only do small things with great love. ..................................... Mother Teresa
Tuesday, May 24, 2011
Social change
Technical maintenance will be performed soon. Temporary issues may arise but will be resolved shortly.
Social change refers to an alteration in the social order of a social group or society; a change in thenature, social institutions, social behaviours or social relations of a society.Monday, May 23, 2011
Advices
1. Never praise your parents ( us )before your in laws. We know how
to command respect and honor. We don't need you for that. If you
praise us , then some day you may have to hear criticism also.
2. Take particular care of the sisters of your husband. ( If daughter is happy, mother is happy) !3. Don't react to any one's conduct vis a vis other. They might be
having their own reasons, old issues supporting the conduct.
4. Give your views if there is need. Do not insist. Never talk with
your in laws reg your husband. They know him better than you !
5. Never talk regarding your in laws with your husband ! He knows
them better than you.
6. Don't bother if they talk with your husband regarding you. They
are entitled to do that. He is their son/ brother !
7. Do whatever mother in law tells you. Don't reply back , even if
she is bit harsh/unreasonable! It takes two to fight.
8. Never talk leave aside complain about any one to your husband.
A lot of things loose significance of their own. Talking about them
only prevents their natural death.
9. You simply do your duty. Serve your in laws more than you served
us. There is no ego of yours vis a vis them. Because you are agent
of your husband before them. Serve them not as "your" Mother/
Father/Sister in law . Serve because they are mother/father/ sister
of "your" husband. Act not in your independent capacity vis a vis
them, but as agent of your husband. Then nothing will hurt you.
Because you have not established any relationship of your own. All
relationships are due to relationship of your husband. ( Once you
are an agent, ego reduces drastically)
10. Respect everyone, but be "devoted" to only your husband.
11. If your husband talks about any of his relations, bad or good,
listen and ignore. Say – you are the best judge. Never add fuel to
the fire. If according to you he is wrong, say so with reasons.
12. Take particular care of children in your sasuraal. Spend money
on them. Love them really.
13. Never tell a lie to any one particularly to your husband- come
what may ! If you don't want to say – better boldly say " I don't
want to comment" than " I don't know" , if you really know. Eitherkeep mum or speak truth as a law. Truth prevails.14. Never compare before any one your parents' house and your newhome.
15. Be pro active in household work. Become happy if you are
required to do some more work on some day. Never hesitate in working
more. The body doesn't depreciate if you work more. It becomes
stronger. Feel happy if you have lightened someone else" work
load. " I will work, you take rest" – this should be the goal.
16. SELF RESPECT means respect of self by self not respect of self
by others. Doing one's duty diligently is real self respect.
to command respect and honor. We don't need you for that. If you
praise us , then some day you may have to hear criticism also.
2. Take particular care of the sisters of your husband. ( If daughter is happy, mother is happy) !3. Don't react to any one's conduct vis a vis other. They might be
having their own reasons, old issues supporting the conduct.
4. Give your views if there is need. Do not insist. Never talk with
your in laws reg your husband. They know him better than you !
5. Never talk regarding your in laws with your husband ! He knows
them better than you.
6. Don't bother if they talk with your husband regarding you. They
are entitled to do that. He is their son/ brother !
7. Do whatever mother in law tells you. Don't reply back , even if
she is bit harsh/unreasonable! It takes two to fight.
8. Never talk leave aside complain about any one to your husband.
A lot of things loose significance of their own. Talking about them
only prevents their natural death.
9. You simply do your duty. Serve your in laws more than you served
us. There is no ego of yours vis a vis them. Because you are agent
of your husband before them. Serve them not as "your" Mother/
Father/Sister in law . Serve because they are mother/father/
of "your" husband. Act not in your independent capacity vis a vis
them, but as agent of your husband. Then nothing will hurt you.
Because you have not established any relationship of your own. All
relationships are due to relationship of your husband. ( Once you
are an agent, ego reduces drastically)
10. Respect everyone, but be "devoted" to only your husband.
11. If your husband talks about any of his relations, bad or good,
listen and ignore. Say – you are the best judge. Never add fuel to
the fire. If according to you he is wrong, say so with reasons.
12. Take particular care of children in your sasuraal. Spend money
on them. Love them really.
13. Never tell a lie to any one particularly to your husband- come
what may ! If you don't want to say – better boldly say " I don't
want to comment" than " I don't know" , if you really know. Eitherkeep mum or speak truth as a law. Truth prevails.14. Never compare before any one your parents' house and your newhome.
15. Be pro active in household work. Become happy if you are
required to do some more work on some day. Never hesitate in working
more. The body doesn't depreciate if you work more. It becomes
stronger. Feel happy if you have lightened someone else" work
load. " I will work, you take rest" – this should be the goal.
16. SELF RESPECT means respect of self by self not respect of self
by others. Doing one's duty diligently is real self respect.
Saturday, May 21, 2011
A grateful nation remembers your enduring contribution and supreme sacrifice

When it comes to the term Youth Icon, I cannot think of a better person to award the title to than the late Rajiv Gandhi. Rajiv was our 7th Prime Minister from 1984 to 1989 and his life, his ideas, and his deeds, remain an inspiration to youngsters even today. More than anyone else in modern Indian history, RajivGandhi is personally responsible for empowering youth in transformative ways.
Vision about India
I have collected most of the famous saying and quotes of Rajiv Gandhi (20 August 1944 – 21 May 199
“India is an Old country but a young nation…I am young and I too have a dream, I dream of India Strong, Independent, Self-Reliant and in the front rank of the nations of the world, in the service of mankind.”
- Strengthened grass root democracy through Panchayati Raj Institutions
- Ensured greater partication of youth in democracy by reducing the voting age to 18 years
- Provided for the women’s reservation in local bodies.
- Initiated Rural Electrification and drinking water misssion
- Revolutionized the IT and Telecom Industry
- Worked for the Global Peace and Disarmament.
A grateful nation remembers your enduring contribution and supreme sacrifice
Tuesday, May 17, 2011
"Life is a great school
Whatever happened, it happened for good.
Whatever is happening, is also happening for good.
Whatever will happen, that too will be for good.
What have you lost for which you weep?
What did you bring with you, which you have lost?
What did you produce, which has perished?
You did not bring anything when you were born.
Whatever you have taken, it is taken from here.
Whatever you have given, it is given here.
You came empty handed and you will go the same way.
Whatever is yours today, will be somebody else's tommorow,
And it will be some other's later.
This change is the law of the universe
And the common theme behind My Creation.
"Life is a great school for the development of character"
Whatever is happening, is also happening for good.
Whatever will happen, that too will be for good.
What have you lost for which you weep?
What did you bring with you, which you have lost?
What did you produce, which has perished?
You did not bring anything when you were born.
Whatever you have taken, it is taken from here.
Whatever you have given, it is given here.
You came empty handed and you will go the same way.
Whatever is yours today, will be somebody else's tommorow,
And it will be some other's later.
This change is the law of the universe
And the common theme behind My Creation.
"Life is a great school for the development of character"
Sunday, May 1, 2011
Happiness, Hope And Confidence
Happiness: Our moods and temperaments either spiral upwards or downwards over a course of our lives. For most of us, it’s usually a roller-coaster ride of ups and downs. All of us long for happiness. So, if we are able to provide that to someone, other’s reciprocal nature will ensure that we gain joy in return as well. So, go on. Make an effort to smile- always. We can’t please everyone all of the time but surely we can brighten someone’s day? Confidence: All of us have potentials to achieve great things in life, but most of us are not motivated or optimistic enough to spur ourselves on over our lifetime to fulfill our life goals to make this world a better place. Be that someone who will enable others to see the positive side of things, that someone who tells stories of inspiration to others, that someone who lets others know of perseverance and determination. As you go about encouraging others, you will feel encouraged too. Hope: In life, we should live life with hope and optimism – with a certain degree of pragmatism. While steering away from being a perfectionist and an idealist, we should live life knowing that things are getting better and better.
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